Gabriel can be hard to love. He's prickly. The only way he likes to be touched is by being punched, kicked, and shoved (Tae Kwon Do and general shoving as you walk down the street- typical teenage junk). He's much more into sarcasm than affirmation. He feels that if you do something for him (like make his bed), it's taking away from his ability to learn to be responsible (his words). He likes to get gifts, and treasures them for years, and this may be his love language. However, it would be my guess that his language is quality time. The problem is that he is an introvert and needs time alone. Needless to say, it's hard to love him.
Xavier's primary love language is probably physical touch. But, Xavier is special in that he just exudes love. He spends a lot of his day trying to find someone to cuddle up next to. He constantly tells
But, Xavier, he knows how to love. You can't help feeling loved by him. That makes him special